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This Blog is your space and reading nook for life to the full. The lifestyle where you have the time for what matters the most and the energy to nurture your SPARK!

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What is Self-Boundaries

I was under the impression that boundaries meant one or two things; separating myself from the people that can negatively influence me and avoiding toxic environments.

In this blog, I share my journey in discovering self-boundaries rather than boundaries involving other people or environments, which helps make my struggles more manageable.

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Adding Spark to My Week-end

“Wh-hat is a week-end?” Asked The Dowager Countess from Downton Abbey when Michael mentioned that he could help run the estate because he had plenty of time during the weekend.

This Blog is about adding SPARK, which gives you energy and joy and lights up your soul during your weekends without feeling guilty about your family, business, or career.

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My Updated Workout Practice

I have intensely disliked going to the gym for decades! And in late November 2022, I joined the gym next door to my condo, which led to an unexpected journey!

This blog is about how I have changed my fears of working so hard and experiencing disappointment, pain, and, worst of all, no results. And how I'm updating and upgrading my mindset!

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Finding Joy - Pt. 3

n part 1, we started exploring finding joy by taking a short walk or detour nearby your home, and part 2 was at home, your mind. Today is about exploring an activity you love.

This blog is part 3 of a 3-part series on the exploration and adventure of Finding Joy. This exploration is a hands-on application to our quest for daily joy.

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Finding Joy - Pt. 2

In part 1, we started exploring finding joy by taking a short walk and/or detour nearby your home. Today’s invitation is at your home! This blog is part 2 of a 3-part series on the exploration and adventure of Finding Joy. This exploration is a hands-on application to our quest for daily joy.

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The Journey of my Individuality

“Hey! I can dance!” were the thoughts rushing through my head as I was feeling so proud to take a dance class at Broadway Dance Studio in Manhattan. “I’m doing it, in my late 20’s! Here I am taking a risk to sign up for a class, and I’m on point!” Then the instructor said, “alright! it’s time for solo freestyle across the dance studio!” I froze…This blog is about the ways I am growing and evolving in opening myself up to myself first, and then to the world.

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Nurturing the “U” in Youth Development

There was a time when I wanted to change the world! I mean I still want to impact the world, however, trying to change the youth (and adults!) is for sure an uphill battle. It’s already hard enough to change my bad patterns and improve myself. Besides who likes a nagger or someone preaching to you all the time? Not I. And nag I have and can, ask my husband!

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